Let it Rain

Tonight after dinner we all went outside check on the garden and plant a couple new seeds. Liam loves to “help” water the garden. However, tonight he was the one getting watered. He loved every moment of getting wet, once he got used to it. It was a nice way to cool off on a hot and humid evening.

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Make Mother’s Day a Piece of Cake

IMG_7620May is a busy time of year for my family. Not only is Mother’s day just around the corner, but both Stephen’s mom and my mom both have birthdays this month. And what is a birthday without cake?

Before I start, making a cake is my Everest in the baking world. I think I have a really high standard for how cake should taste, and I constantly seem to (at least in my mind) fail to meet that goal. However, this recipe for buttermilk spice cake turned out quite nicely. Not perfect, but it was delicious. And with Mother’s day this weekend, it makes the perfect dessert for Mom to enjoy.


Buttermilk Spice Cake with Italian Meringue Cream Cheese Frosting
Recipe courtesy Emeril Lagasse


  • 2 cups brown sugar, lightly packed
  • 1 stick butter, softened
  • 1/2 cup vegetable oil
  • 5 large eggs, separated
  • 2 cups all-purpose flour
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1 teaspoon baking powder
  • 1 1/2 teaspoons cinnamon
  • 1/2 teaspoon fresh grated nutmeg
  • 1/4 teaspoon ground cloves
  • 1/4 teaspoon ground allspice
  • Pinch salt
  • 1 cup buttermilk


  1. Preheat oven to 350F
  2. Lightly grease 2 (9-inch) cake pans. Cut 2 (9-inch) parchment paper rounds (easy guide to cutting parchment paper rounds) and line the bottom of the pans. Once placed in the pan, grease and flour the parchment rounds.
  3. In a large mixing bowl with an electric mixer, cream the brown sugar and butter. Then add the oil in a steady stream.
  4. Then, add the egg yolks, 1 at a time, beating well after each addition.
  5. In a separate bowl, sift the flour, baking soda, baking powder, spices and salt.
  6. Alternating the flour mixture and the buttermilk, add it to the batter until just combined. Make sure to begin and end with the dry ingredients.
  7. With a stand mixer and a separate bowl (or electric mixer if that’s what you have), beat the egg whites until stiff peaks form.
  8. Fold the egg whites into the cake batter in thirds.
  9. Pour batter evenly into the prepared pans and bake until the center springs back when touched, about 25-30 minutes.
  10. Remove cakes from the oven and cool on wire racks. After the cakes have cooled, invert them onto sheets of parchment paper.

Italian Meringue Cream Cheese Frosting:
Recipe adapted from Whisk-Kid


  • 5 egg whites, room temperature
  • 1 1/4 cup sugar, divided (You will be cooking 1 cup with water to make your syrup and whipping the eggs with a 1/4 cup)
  • 2 sticks butter, room temperature
  • 1 tsp vanilla extract
  • 1/2 cup water
  • 8 oz cream cheese, room temperature


  1. Place your candy thermometer on the edge of a small sauce pan. Pour in 1 cup of sugar first and then pour the water over top to moisten. DO NOT STIR.
  2. Turn the heat up to medium. While the sugar is cooking, poor the egg whites into the bowl you plan to whip the icing in. Then wait for the syrup to come to about 230F-235F.
  3. At this point, and only at this point, should you begin to whip your egg whites using the whip attachment. Start on slow until they get frothy, then increase the speed to medium-high. Add the remaning 1/4 cup of sugar in a slow, steady stream just after the eggs begin to stiffen. Continue to whip until the meringue no longer slides in the bowl.
  4. When the sugar reaches 245F (which should happen right as you are done whipping your egg whites), or the firm ball stage, turn off the heat and turn the mixer up to high speed.
  5. Begin to pour the syrup into the bowl at a very slow and steady pace, making sure to avoid hitting the whip with the syrup.
  6. After the sugar is added, beat the icing for 10-15 minutes until the bowl is cool to touch.
  7. Once the meringue becomes light and fluffy, it is time to add the butter. Divide the butter into tablespoon pieces and add 1 at time to the icing with the mixer running on slow. Make sure that each piece is incorporated before adding the next.
  8. After all the butter is added, turn the speed up to high. It should take about 10-15 minutes for the buttercream to form. If your buttercream does not progress from the soupy stage, place your work bowl and whisk in the fridge for 7-10 minutes before whipping again.
  9. When the buttercream is thick and luxurious, pour in the vanilla extract and whip to combine.
  10. In a separate bowl, whip up the softened cream cheese. Once it is whipped, fold it into the buttercream. Be careful, this frosting can be delicate when the cream cheese is added. When the cake is iced, I recommended keeping the cake in the refrigerator until you are ready to serve it. 

Mold it, Make it, Bend it….Stack it?

Last week, Liam spotted the cups of Play-doh that were sitting in the pantry. We pulled them out and I put Liam up in his chair at the table. Then I did the unthinkable. I pulled the Play-doh out of the container. Liam starts shouting, “No! No! No! Back!”

I do as he pleases, thinking that maybe I just pulled out the wrong color (you can never be too sure with toddlers). I tried again, this time with the red Play-doh. I started showing him that you could mold it and flatten it, but Liam was having none of it.

On the verge of giving up completely, I thought why the hell not. I’ll just give him the cups and see if that’s what he wants. And what do you know, the little stink bot just wanted to stack the cups on top of each other.

Another lesson learned….by Mom…

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A Letter to My Dad

IMG_5955It has been awhile.

Life as I know it has dramatically changed in the last week. On April 22, 2013, my father passed away from complications with dementia and chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD). I can’t say that my family and I didn’t see this coming. After all, my dad smoked for over 50 years. But it’s still a shock.

There are so many things that I wish I could have told him before he passed. I wish that I could just hear his voice one last time. I wish I could feel him embrace me like only a father can. So, I’m writing this letter to him in hopes that he knows just how I feel.

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I miss you. While there were plenty of times when we didn’t always see eye to eye or get along very well, you were still my dad. And I love you very much. You were the best dad you could be. I’m sorry I didn’t always make the time for you during the last couple years you were here, but please understand that it wasn’t because I didn’t want to see you. It was because I hated what had become of you.

In my eyes, you weren’t the dad I had known for 24 years. You weren’t the same man who taught me how to shoot. You weren’t the same guy who took me camping every summer. Nor were you the same person who would go Christmas shopping at the last minute with me. You just weren’t the same. 

I often described your condition as if an alien had come and taken over your mind and body. Because while you looked the same on the outside, I knew in my heart that it wasn’t you behind those brown eyes. 

There were a few times when I would catch a glimpse of the old you. When you would push through the haze, and reemerge from the depths. Those times would become fewer and fewer in the last months. But when they came, I always cherished them. 


What upsets me most is that Liam will never know who you were. He will only have the stories of you that we’ll tell (and I promise to make sure some of them are about how good you were). I’ll miss seeing you two interact together. He always loved running into your room screaming, “Papa!” while trying to scare you. I will hold onto those memories for the rest of my life.

I’m truly sorry that the last few years here weren’t always great, but I know that you found enjoyment and comfort at Uncle Norm’s Place. You always looked forward to going every day and you never stopped talking about it. 

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While it saddens me that you are no longer with us, I know that you are finally at peace. You’re no longer suffering in this world. You have your mind and body back. You can finally be free. And that is comforting to me. 

I will always love and miss you, Dad. You will be in my heart each and every day.

Love always,


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Easy Barbecue Sauce


Now that it has finally started to be nice outside, we’ve been grilling for dinner almost every night. In an effort to stop using processed foods, I went about trying to make my own barbecue sauce. Little did I know that to make it from scratch, I needed to let it simmer for a couple hours to allow the tomatoes to break down. That’s when I came across a quick and easy barbecue sauce in a Cook’s Illustrated cookbook. While it may not be completely unprocessed, it is at least a little better than buying a bottle of BBQ sauce from the store.

Easy Barbecue Sauce (makes about 1 1/2 cups)

  • 1 medium onion, peeled and quartered
  • 1/4 cup water
  • 1 cup ketchup
  • 5 tablespoons molasses
  • 2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar
  • 2 tablespoons Worcestershire sauce
  • 2 tablespoons Dijon mustard
  • 1 1/2 teaspoons liquid smoke
  • 1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper
  • 2 tablespoons vegetable oil
  • 1 medium garlic clove, minced
  • 1 teaspoon chili powder
  • 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper


  1. Process the onion with the water in a food processor until pureed and the mixture looks like slush. Strain mixture through a mesh strainer and press the solid with a rubber spatula until you have about 1/2 cups of juice. Discard the solids.
  2. Whisk the onion juice, ketchup, molasses, apple cider vinegar, Worcestershire, mustard, liquid smoke, and black pepper in a bowl.
  3. Heat the oil in a large saucepan over medium heat. Add the garlic, chili powder, and cayenne pepper. Cook for about 30 seconds, or until fragrant. Whisk in the ketchup mixture and bring to a boil. Reduce heat to medium-low and simmer gently, uncovered, for about 25 minutes. Cool the sauce to room temperature before using. (It can be refrigerated in an airtight container for up to 1 week.)

Garden Progress – Spring 2013


We have seedlings!

This past weekend, our garden has erupted with cucumbers, green beans and summer squash seedlings. Liam has really enjoyed learning what all the different plants are and pointing each of them out to us.


Vegetable Garden – Spring 2013


As I said in my previos post, we started our vegetable garden this past weekend. We started growing our own garden in the spring of 2009. Then, Liam was born in 2011 and we let it go for two years. Now that Liam can walk and play outside, we felt it was time to get started again.

After two years of neglect, our square foot gardens were not looking too good. Each box had about 2 dozen weeds and a couple of trees growing in them. Over the course of a couple hours on a nice spring afternoon we were able to clear everything out and get ready for planting.

We decided not to grow a whole lot this year. Stephen and I thought it would be best to keep it simple and only grow vegetables that we knew we would use. We settled on planting Roma tomatoes (which I plan to make my own pasta sauce with), green/red bell peppers, cucumbers, green beans, zucchini, and pumpkins.


I know it doesn’t look like much right now, but in a few weeks the seeds will be sprouting. We may even have a couple flowers on the tomato plants. I’m sure Liam will enjoy watching everything grow this summer. He already loves to “help” water the plants. Now we just have to keep the dog out of the garden and we should be all set to have a nice growing season.

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A Morning at the Park

Spring has finally arrived!

This past weekend, the family and I spent most of our time outdoors. We started our vegetable garden (more on that in an upcoming post), weeded the front flower beds, and we also went to the park. Liam loves having the freedom to roam around. And Maymont Park provides plenty of space for him to do so.

Maymont is also a great location for a budding photographer. They have a big petting zoo (Liam loves to see the cows and horses), an indoor nature center, dozens of wildlife exhibits, and an Italian, Japanese and butterfly gardens. After at least 3 different trips to Maymont, I was finally able to capture the tulips and trees in full bloom.

Tulips in the Italian Garden
Liam walking down to the Japanese garden


The fountain on the steps down to the Japanese garden
Liam waving, “bye,” as we were trying to get him to come with us to see the bear.
One of my favorite pictures from the weekend.



Chocolate Chip Cookies – The Way Nan Made ‘Em


I think we can all agree that it has been a crazy Spring, at least weather wise. When it snowed last week, I was worried about finding activities to keep Liam busy. He doesn’t really care for going out in the snow yet. It’s like he forgets how to walk and will just stand in the middle of yard while the snow is falling all around him. He loves to watch it snow. But because he doesn’t actually know how to play/walk in the snow yet, I knew we would be house ridden. 

I decided that we would take a crack at making chocolate chip cookies. This was something that I always enjoyed doing with Nan when she was alive and I was a little girl. Now, my nan always used the recipe on the back of the Nestlé Toll House bag. Because of that, that is what I also use. They always turn out crispy on the edges and soft on the inside. Just the way I like them.


The first time I attempted to make cookies with Liam, it didn’t really go over too well. He didn’t understand what was going on and just wanted to play with the silverware drawer. This time he got into it a bit more. When it comes to baking (ok, maybe it’s not just baking), I can be a bit of a control freak. So when I let him stir the dry ingredients together, that was as big of a step for me as it was for Liam. Thankfully he wasn’t too messy with the whole process, and he let me help him mix the ingredients as well. He even tried to take a taste of the flour, which he didn’t seem to enjoy too much. After awhile, he lost interest and plopped down on the chair he was standing on. I guess he wanted to take a supervisory roll.


Nestlé Toll House Chocolate Chip Cookies:

  • 2 1/4 cups flour
  • 1 tsp baking soda
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1 cup (2 sticks) butter, soften
  • 3/4 sugar
  • 3/4 brown sugar, lightly packed
  • 2 large eggs
  • 1 tsp pure vanilla extract (I usually put more than 1 tsp. I think it tastes better that way.)
  • 2 cups (12 oz package) Nestlé Toll House Milk Chocolate Morsels 
  • 1 cup chopped nuts (optional and I never put them in)


  1. Preheat oven to 375F
  2. Combine flour, baking soda and salt. Set aside in a small bowl.
  3. Cream the butter, brown sugar, white sugar and vanilla extract until it is fluffy and creamy. Add eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition.
  4. Gradually beat in flour mixture (I like to mix it in thirds). Be sure not to over mix.
  5. Stir in morsels (and nuts if you’re using them)
  6. Drop by rounded tablespoon onto parchment paper lined baking sheets
  7. Bake in the oven for 9-11 minutes or until golden brown on top. Allow to cool on baking sheet for 2 minutes and then transfer to a wire cooling rack for at least 10 minutes.  
  8. Enjoy!

Restaurant Style Prime Rib


When Stephen and I were still newlyweds, I was asked by my mother-in-law to make a standing rib roast for Christmas Eve dinner. At the time I was still working, and I would be working on Christmas Eve. I had also never made a rib roast before so I declined. I didn’t want to take on such a challenge for an important holiday meal.

Then, my birthday came about two months ago, and my mom bought me a roasting pan. I knew that the first meal I made with it should be something special. In my mind I thought I would make a turkey breast, but when I went to see the butcher, he had another idea. Once again I was brought face-to-face with the thought of cooking a prime rib. But this time there was no pressure. I didn’t have to worry about ruining a holiday feast. Besides, I had seen my mom cook this roast lots of Christmas’ before. How hard could it be?

As it turns out, prime rib really isn’t that hard to cook. The hardest part is making sure you get the meat thermometer in it correctly. Then all you have to do is put the roast in the oven and wait for it to reach the desired temperature. As a side note, I should mention that when it is time to take your beautiful roast out of the oven, you should be mindful of your surroundings. Otherwise you will be like me and dump red wine all over the floor. And yes, it even splashed up onto my ceiling (which I later had to have repainted because it would never come off). Moral of the story: don’t leave your red wine in the path of your roast! Thankfully I still had plenty to make my au jus and plenty to drink.


Prime Rib:

  • 1 2lb boneless rib roast (have your butcher tie up the roast as well to keep it from expanding or contracting unevenly while cooking)
  • 2 large onions (quartered)
  • 4-5 carrots (peeled)
  • 3-4 celery stalks
  • 4 cloves of garlic
  • Borsari seasoning (you can find this usually at Whole Foods by the butcher)
  • Olive oil (enough to baste onto the roast and then extra to sprinkle onto your vegetables on the bottom of the roasting pan)
  • Salt and pepper


  1. Take your roast out of the refrigerator at least an hour before you start to cook it. The meat needs to come to room temperature so that it can cook evenly.
  2. Preheat the oven to 450F. 
  3. Place all of your cut vegetables in the bottom of the roasting pan. Season with salt and pepper. Drizzle with olive oil. This will help to develop the flavor of your au jus.
  4. Pat the roast dry and then place it, fat side up, on your roasting rack. Season with Borsari seasoning. Be sure to rub the seasoning into the roast to get the flavors into it. Roast it for 15 minutes at 450F.
  5. Lower heat to 325F. Cook the roast for about 25 minutes per pound or until the meat registers 120F (medium rare) on an instant read meat thermometer. 130F for medium.
  6. Transfer the roast to a cutting board and tent loosely with aluminum foil. Let rest for 20-30 minutes. The juices need time to redistribute and if you cut into it immediately you will have a dry, tasteless piece of meat. It will not get cold. I promise.
  7. Slice the meat about 1/2 inch thick and serve.

Au Jus:

  • Pan drippings
  • 1 cup of red wine
  • 2 cups of beef broth
  • Salt and pepper to taste
  • 1 tsp thyme


  1. Place roasting pan on top of stove across two burners. Turn the burners on high-medium.
  2. Add the wine to the pan and cook over high heat until it has reduced. Be sure to scrape the bottom of the pan with a wooden spoon.
  3. Remove the vegetables from the pan. These can easily be served as a side dish or used later if you wish.
  4. Add the broth and cook until the liquid as reduced by about half. Whisk in thyme and season with salt and pepper, to taste.

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